Thus it is crucial to learn how not to dwell on the past and move forward in life.
Remembering the bad and the good times
The things we tend to dwell on the most is the good times spent with your ex. This is a big No-no, because it will make you want to go back to him and wonder why you broke up in the first place. Thus the safest bet is to remember both the good as well as the bad times. The bad times will remind you why the relationship/friendship was not perfect and that the decision you took to walk over it was right.
Think of the chain reaction
You must have heard of the phrase — when one door closes, the other one opens. Inculcate this phrase in your life and you will see how happy you will be and how easy it will become for you to move on in life without letting the past haunt you.
Make new friends
The best way to move on in life and let go off the past is by making new friends and acquaintances. This does not mean that you have to forget old friends in your life — but by making new friends, the past won't affect you that bad. And the best part about having new friends in your life is that you can chat with them about new things and experience something new every time.
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